The life of a Duke City Gentleman
In the game of thrones…..you win or you die
Tyrion Lanister “I like the game”
(Source: hirofzesun, via fuckyeahnerdpr0n)
I want these…. someone tell me where to get them from…
(via @cboechat)
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As the other half of a lady who gets naked for a living, this is truth…..
I know this may sound funny coming from a promiscuous guy who makes a living taking photos of naked girls but to some degree I consider myself a feminist. In fact shooting girls has made me a bigger one. Having read the shitty comments and heard stories from girls who got tormented by people after…
I want to add my own two cents to this and what my lovely other half is saying. She is way nicer then I about this. Unless you are in my head and know what I know, keep your uninformed ideas to your self. What we as an adult couple do, consensually, between us is none of your damn business…
nuff said
I normally would not reblog something like this on my public blog, but because I had a gentleman speculating via twitter that I must have had a ‘very special relationship with my father as a child” and advising me to be very careful with ‘that kind of sexual deviance’ I feel the need to post this as an affirmation.
There is nothing wrong with my BDSM lifestyle. There’s nothing wrong with me because I’m a masochist. Please keep your assumptions to yourself.
Respectful questions are always welcome.
There is nothing wrong with you.
You aren’t damaged, not because of this.
The thrill you feel when the heavy sting of a hand on your cheek cuts into you isn’t indicative of some wider malaise, an underlying sickness that you can only cope with when you’re drowning in pain. That is not why you want what you want.
You aren’t submissive because your daddy didn’t love you enough. I’m not Dominant because I’m a borderline psychopath. I didn’t pull the legs off spiders when I was a kid, and I don’t have fantasies about killing my co workers. There’s nothing wrong with me. There’s nothing wrong with you.
This isn’t an outlet for the darkness inside of you, some fucked up shadow that you have to keep hidden when the civilised people are around. We’re not heroin addicts in the corner, getting high and getting low, and hitting rock bottom because of our addiction. This isn’t an addiction, and guilt isn’t your problem to have. You have nothing to be ashamed of, you’re not fucked up. Not you. No more than anyone else.
Whatever issues you may or may not have, they’re not why you’re getting into D/s. They’re not why you like to be spanked, or degraded, or why you want to feel like you belong. Those are the accusing cries of those who recognise the attraction but are too cowardly to admit that to themselves. And so they lash out, and try to hit some truth somewhere. Everyone has issues. Of course they’re going to hit home eventually. Ignore them. Fuck them. You have this. You have me. They have denial.
There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re as perfect as anyone, just like this.
(Source: therealkatiewest)